Friday, August 12, 2011

Being an exotic dancer? Pros, Cons, experiences, opinions?

I've been considering the same thing, only in our town we have a couple of clubs. I've been told though that you have to have a routine or something, so be prepared and stuff. Hope you can make up your mind!

Should I move to Florida?

My fiance and I live together in Hollywood, California. We are 21 years-old. It's great because we are trying to build careers in the entertainment industry. Only problem is, for me I cannot be creative here. The high-stress superficial city environment is starting to clutter my mind. I've been here for almost 3 years and feel that I'm not productive mainly due to just not being able to flourish in this environment. I love tropical weather and open waters/ beaches/ beautiful surroundings. I have never been to Florida but imagine I would be happier there. I am a singing teacher so I would have to build my clientele wherever I move to, also I love writing songs and need to be inspired. My fiance is in school now so he will either look for job placement (record label, recording studio, television network station etc.) or continue his schooling. So I'm thinking Miami would be a good location because the entertainment industry is prominent but I just don't want to be in the heart of a major city again--maybe a more laid back surrounding area? Also I would DEFINITELY like to move somewhere where the cost of living DECREASES from here in LA, California. I want to rent cheap so I can save more money and eventually look into us buying when we find a place we can see ourselves staying. From my understanding, South Beach is lovely but pricey. I would also look into Ft. Lauder dale, Boca Raton, IDK even Orlando is a possibility but I know it's not by the beach, which is a bummer. Any other suggestions? Any feedback? Thanks in advance for helping me figure out where to visit, and where to consider moving to :)

Is this a weird request from my best friend who happens to be a girl, for her Bachelor Party?

We are both 22 I've known her for 5 Years now we are best friends I am a guy and yes very straight lol She is getting married in a month bummer because I was in love with her :'( but I'm happy for her. Yet, she called me the other night and said she had one final request and that she wants to spend a week in Las Vegas just with me in a Villa. I was like "Yes?" but I'm thinking isn't that a little in appropriate that me and her will be alone in Vegas in a Villa for a week? I mean of course I want to go! but should I go? and why does she only want to go with me?

Why are vampires and ware wolves part of girls fantasies nowadays?

this is really sad because i remember back then that they were really cool for guys like on cartoons and games but now ever since twilight and teen wolf and more shows there meant for girls now

I had a dream about my this girl i like?

so i went camping over the 3 day weekend with my family and i had 2 dreams about this girl ive had a crush on since end of my ninth grade year (now the end of 11th grade year). Well in the first dream we were talking on the bleachers and her friend came and got her attention away from me some how i ended up grabing both of her hands and i had her pinned down and i just went in for the kiss and when we were face to face she said my name followed by a pause and then she said how did u know? i kissed her and i woke up(bummer i know wud have been first kiss for both of us) the next night i had another dream and we were totally ignoring each other we were in a classroom and i left the room and we made eye contact but that was about it didnt see her for the rest of dream. i know dreams are supposed to prepare u for real life situations in wich u might not know how to react or w/e. but why wud i dream this if i know she dont like me cuz i already asked her out and she said no. why do these things still cross my mind is it cuz i still talk to her?

Causes of severe neck pain and right arm/hand numbness?

My neck is KILLING me! It hurts reallllly bad to hold my head up. and I've got like the worst headache EVER! also my right arm has that "fallen asleep" feeling. its all tingly and numb. in the pinky and ring fingers. this has been going on for a few months... causes? should i go to the dr?

My lip is still numb?

Recently one of my teeth had gotten infected and my mouth swelled up so I went to the E.R. The doctor there put cotton with a numbing medicine in my mouth for a while. He then stuck a needle into the swollen area and made a small incision to try to remove some puss or whatever was causing the swelling. Well it's been about a week now and my lip is still numb. It used to be the right half of my chin and lower lip but now it's just half of my lower lip. It seems the numbness dulls a bit as the swelling goes down and its still slightly swollen. Is this normal? Will the numbness be gone when the swelling is gone? Is there anything I can do to get rid of the numbness faster?