I don't know how I feel about this guy..?

elloo :) i saw your question and felt sorry that nobody answer'd it after you typed all of that!! so i'll answer...... im a 16 year old boy, and ive had the same feelings as you with a girl before, the problem is one of the ones you listed.... 'the chase'.... the whole excitement of it all was flirting and getting him to like you, and now u know he does like you, there's 'no fun' in it (without sounding rude) and now your at the point where u dont want to be near him because of it. its happened to me before, so i know how u feel, all i can really advise you with is that he isnt the one for you, if he was, then you would know by now, and you wouldnt have to ask the question :P so if i were you, keep as nothing more than friends, and sooner or later, 'the one' for you will turn up. good luck!