What would be better, to move out to college or stay home?

Growing up the first promise made to me was that my dad will help me pay for my college expenses. Later throughout my life i was shocked that i no longer relied on that promise and was bombarded by my father that it be better for me to work all my life because I didnt deserve anything. I was shocked because those words made no sense I have not done anything bad to him. Later he got me excited about a car he told all his friends the car he was buying was for me because i was doing well in school and was rowing up. The day came and the car was here, he said Honey! here is the key..BUMMER he was talking to my mom. I stayed speechless I was already planning to go to driving school and now that. He always gets mad at me for everything I want to move to college because he has not helped me grow. He wants to hold me down and retain me in his home without friendships. I already graduated and i should get more freedom... I had 2 of my dreams broken by him that was college guidance and support and a car. Any car! Hestill shows no support for me. What should I do move out where i dont have to be under his will or stay home?